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Always-honest
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in my fantasy i'm both guys though.Zenith said:
DeaconKnowledge
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How would you find out?
Unless you knew the parties involved or the girl is a huge whore (which is a red flag anyway) girls don't usually throw that into general conversation.
I'd file that into "I don't want to know" territory.
Unless you knew the parties involved or the girl is a huge whore (which is a red flag anyway) girls don't usually throw that into general conversation.
I'd file that into "I don't want to know" territory.
Actually I'll tell my story. I was out drinking in the City of London (financial district) with two friends. I hadn't seen both in ages and, unfortunately, one had recently suffered a loss in the family (his dad).
Anyway, I noticed two girls constantly staring at us. One was attractive and the other was kind of skinny for my tastes but pretty in a plain sort of way. I was thinking about leaving (the guy whose dad had passed was throwing up and in no fit state) when I see the two girls kiss. No tongue just a kiss on the lips. So I immediately went over to talk to them... (before my other friend could!)
I asked them how long they'd been together (they worked at a Starbucks together or something) and conversation flowed. There was a point where they asked me if me and my sober friend had ever done the deed. Not sure what sort of vibes I was sending out! But I told them men weren't my thing.
As the bar closes I ask where next? I couldn't take them back to my place cos my folks had temporarily moved in whilst they renovated their house. One girl lived in a bedsit (a room in a house) and didn't feel it appropriate to rock up as a triple. The other had an excuse too but I can't remember what it was. Anyway, nothing happened that night except I kissed them both but we arranged to meet a few days later at the flat of one of their friends.
When I got there they asked if I was comfortable; I said yes of course! I didn't realise exactly what they meant, being a cocky son of a bitch, but when they turned to each other and said "remember that Chinese guy??" it dawned on me exactly what they meant (psychologically) and also that they were seasoned at this sort of thing!
To cut to the chase: it was fantastic. I don't regret doing it at all and the only reason I stopped seeing them was because they kept asking if I liked men. I fully expected to eventually get tied up as a big bastard stepped outta a wardrobe.
That's my experience. Whilst it's not even close to dating I thought I'd try to convey the fun of it (which, actually, I don't think I have!).
Anyway, I noticed two girls constantly staring at us. One was attractive and the other was kind of skinny for my tastes but pretty in a plain sort of way. I was thinking about leaving (the guy whose dad had passed was throwing up and in no fit state) when I see the two girls kiss. No tongue just a kiss on the lips. So I immediately went over to talk to them... (before my other friend could!)
I asked them how long they'd been together (they worked at a Starbucks together or something) and conversation flowed. There was a point where they asked me if me and my sober friend had ever done the deed. Not sure what sort of vibes I was sending out! But I told them men weren't my thing.
As the bar closes I ask where next? I couldn't take them back to my place cos my folks had temporarily moved in whilst they renovated their house. One girl lived in a bedsit (a room in a house) and didn't feel it appropriate to rock up as a triple. The other had an excuse too but I can't remember what it was. Anyway, nothing happened that night except I kissed them both but we arranged to meet a few days later at the flat of one of their friends.
When I got there they asked if I was comfortable; I said yes of course! I didn't realise exactly what they meant, being a cocky son of a bitch, but when they turned to each other and said "remember that Chinese guy??" it dawned on me exactly what they meant (psychologically) and also that they were seasoned at this sort of thing!
To cut to the chase: it was fantastic. I don't regret doing it at all and the only reason I stopped seeing them was because they kept asking if I liked men. I fully expected to eventually get tied up as a big bastard stepped outta a wardrobe.
That's my experience. Whilst it's not even close to dating I thought I'd try to convey the fun of it (which, actually, I don't think I have!).
spiderman123
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Tokubetsu said:
so if you catch the herps ......
SolidusDave
Member
Tokubetsu said:
I don't think humiliation was the motivation of my school buddy, as far as I know they thought it would be more tame.
Aside from her sister, no one at that party really knew the girl well or at all.
(but yes, it's still a shitty thing to do, I agree)
K
kittens
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Yeah, sure, I don't give a shit.
speculawyer
Member
What . . . no reference yet?
spiderman123
Member
Tokubetsu said:
what if it was from your brother..........
Always-honest
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did they dp her?speculawyer said:What . . . no reference yet?
blame space
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Always-honest said:
spiderman123
Member
Wait what if she had a 3some with ALL GIRLS!!!! my dick would shoot up in the air
Always-honest
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:lol well done junior juniorblame space said:
SpeedingUptoStop
will totally Facebook friend you! *giggle* *LOL*
So like, how does this work for dudes who are saying no to this? You talk a girl up, you get interested in her, maybe even get to the point where you're fooling around with her and then one day she's checking herself out in the mirror, doing her nails and you, in your hungover stupor, are trying to recover your pants somewhere in this room and you find a picture of her and two rather attractive men playing some halo 3 together or whatever and you're like "hey are these your brothers?" and she's like "naw, just some dudes I used to date" and you're like, "oh, when?" because you already care way too much about this why not go a little further and she's like "A couple months last year" and you say "oh, just one right after the other" and she says "naw, at the same time"....what do you do? WHAT DO YOU DO
I'm not offended. I just don't like picturing her having sex with someone else (let alone 2 guys).Crunched said:
I always swore to myself I wouldn't get jealous but I think that with love jealousy just comes naturally :lol
I know it's not logical and I don't blame her in any way. I just don't like the thought of it.
Jamesfrom818
Banned
Crunched said:
For me, this is what I'd think she was thinking about while we we're having sex:
"His dick feels great but a second dick in my ass would make this even better."
B-Rad Lascelle
Banned
Why should it make you jealous that she was with 2 guys simultaneously versus 2 guys individually at different times?Shorty said:
If anything, it should make you feel better about yourself because neither of those guys were able to satisfy her needs individually. They should be jealous of you!!! :lol
Alright, that's a good explanation. You sound like you handle jealousy well. I guess in a love relationship things are different than in a short-term one. I know I wouldn't want to share my current girlfriend with anyone, male or female. She has a friend she's very close to, and they're both very comfortable around me (we've all three slept in the same bed before), but I get uneasy when that other girl starts becoming too touchy with me. Don't like the idea of where it may lead.Shorty said:
This is a little irrational :lolJamesfrom818 said:
Mike Works
Member
Of course I would date a girl who's previously had a threesome, why the hell wouldn't I? What a dumb question.
spiderman123
Member
AVclub said:
when a girl is discussing her sexual exploits she tends to bring up the part where she has AN STD!......and by her saying she had so many exploits you might want to consider she has an STD. Thank you come again.
2 Minutes Turkish
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Only a girl who's been in a FFM, and the M was her BF.
Mystic Theurge
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People, there is a difference between MMF/FMM and MFM.
Jamesfrom818
Banned
Crunched said:
Love and relationships are hardly ever rational.
Arcane Hayter
Member
I'm married to a woman that's been in a few threesomes (MFF). I had a chance at one years ago and it never happened. So when I think about her experience I only become angry due to my (non) experience. What took me a while to comprehend though is why she won't have one with me. She only had the threesomes to spice things up with guys she didn't really want a long term relationship with.
She cares about our relationship and doesn't want to jeopardize it. Part of me gets it, but the other part wants a threesome. So. Damn. Bad.
I don't want to jeopardize what we have either, but you just go around once and I'd like to have a threesome before I die.:lol
She cares about our relationship and doesn't want to jeopardize it. Part of me gets it, but the other part wants a threesome. So. Damn. Bad.
I don't want to jeopardize what we have either, but you just go around once and I'd like to have a threesome before I die.:lol
YuriLowell
Member
y2dvd said:
Do it with her and then break up.
Problem solved.
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