Messofanego
Banned
Mah man! Great sad story to that one, too. It's inspired by the dev's heart condition: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NUT5SBZkVys
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Dating Age |OT$6| Just ask her out already
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Mah man! Great sad story to that one, too. It's inspired by the dev's heart condition: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NUT5SBZkVys
ZackieChan
Member
That explains the company name.
Crazy they made something that high quality with Game Maker.
this is me right now.
broke up with my SO of 3 years in Jan and I've just been working on myself (playing games, working out, eating better, working harder etc) and even though I told myself I'd jump back into the dating pool this month... well.. Zelda came out and.. yeah..
those girls will still be there next month, right?
shit.. Persona 5..
maybe I should just get a dog.
Moose Biscuits
It would be extreamly painful...
Third option: fail out of school, get a mediocre full time job and spend your free time and disposable income on videogames. It worked for me and it can work for you!
Gotdatmoney
Member
Well I already graduated and have have a full time job. This is just extra shit
I dont think I could spend all my disposable income on video games if I tried. Gaf deals thread basically finds me shit at 1/2 price. And the back log is disgusting.
I have a problem, GAF.
So, I've been dating this girl for a month and I've been very sexually frustrated because I'm her first boyfriend and she wants to take take it rather slow. And I'm willing to do so as I rather like this woman but on days when I don't see her or late at night when I get bored I just get super turned on.
Before I started dating this girl I had this friend of mine that would trade nudes with me over snapchat. I got rather addicted to this, and have since started trading again while I'm dating someone else. It's rather carnal: no text, no faces, just dick pics and boobs. We've gotten the correspondence down to its essence. Even though I've been telling myself that this is no different from porn, I still feel like I'm betraying my girlfriend doing this. I'm in the wrong, right?
So, I've been dating this girl for a month and I've been very sexually frustrated because I'm her first boyfriend and she wants to take take it rather slow. And I'm willing to do so as I rather like this woman but on days when I don't see her or late at night when I get bored I just get super turned on.
Before I started dating this girl I had this friend of mine that would trade nudes with me over snapchat. I got rather addicted to this, and have since started trading again while I'm dating someone else. It's rather carnal: no text, no faces, just dick pics and boobs. We've gotten the correspondence down to its essence. Even though I've been telling myself that this is no different from porn, I still feel like I'm betraying my girlfriend doing this. I'm in the wrong, right?
Zeus The Dino
Member
Yeah
Ray Wonder
Founder of the Wounded Tagless Children
I'd be so pissed
Messofanego
Banned
Why you want additional drama to your current relationship with this nude pic business?
Just jerk off to porn that's not related to you lol.
NotTheGuyYouKill
Member
Yes
Gotdatmoney
Member
You serious son?
Why dont you just dump this girl and find someone who matches your sexual expectations. There is no guarantee this girl will get better in regards to sex for you so I dunno why you are wasting your time? As mentioned you cant pull out a laptop and beat your meat? But you think you can wait this out?
Messofanego
Banned
Whatever happened to the old adage of "Jerk off, then decide"?
I will wait this one out. I very much like this girl and I was never known for being able to ask women out. Me having a girlfriend is a rarity.
Yeah that's what I thought. So as a deterrent I'm going to try and get this girl to block me, then I'll block her.
I would really rather go the route of "never tell my girlfriend so long as it never happens again". It's a fairly harmless offense, yeah? I mean I feel horrible for not being able to control myself but I could have fucked up waaaaay worse.
Gotdatmoney
Member
You like her but just not enough to know getting nudes from someone you know while dating her is a problem. I don't really grasp how you needed to inquire about this. Who do you think would be cool with this?
This reads ultra sad. It reads like you dont want to be the one to put your foot down.
Smh
Only barely cheating on someone is still cheating.
Whatever helps you sleep at night though.
Yeah that's what I'm going for. I put this inquiry out there moreso as a self inflicted shaming session because that's what I need to put this to rest. I've had a lot of problems with this even before I started dating so I just really needed to feel bad about myself I think. I got the girl to block me and I blocked her so that should solve the problem for the time being.
plz get on my 30+ hour week level then we'll talk
social life what's that
Dogs will love you no matter how many games you play
You sure as hell are.
You could... just stop? Like really, you gotta do this shit? How old are you?
Also lol at you trying to justify cheating on your girlfriend
Ultramantaro1
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What if she's not ready to have sex for another month? 2 months? Another year? How long would you keep cheating on her like that before you let her go and find a better man than you?
Seriously, just jack off or break up. But at this point, just break up because you don't sound like a great guy tbh.
Seriously, just jack off or break up. But at this point, just break up because you don't sound like a great guy tbh.
Moose Biscuits
It would be extreamly painful...
Can't fuck a dog though
Again, I feel like shit. I know I'm wrong. I'm doing everything I can to ensure it never happens again.
Gotdatmoney
Member
With the amount of "probably swiped right for your dog" I see girls put on dating apps I beg to differ.
"Doing everything I can".
Because your hands are involuntarily:
-opening snapchat
-setting up pictures
-taking pictures
-sending pictures
-receiving pictures
-repeat
I know it's hard to stop your hands from doing these things independent from your brain, but you have to get those wayward things under control. :/
Trying to manipulate someone into blocking you so you 'won't do it again' isn't doing everything you can, lol
You could:
- block her yourself
- simply stop texting her
- telling her like an adult that you are in a relationship and do not want nudes, and to stop sending them, and you two can keep talking as normal
- delete the app
- break up with the girlfriend because you two don't match sexually
- jerk off until she's ready to have sex
Or many many other things.
ZackieChan
Member
Those sweet days of youthful innocence
Moose Biscuits
It would be extreamly painful...
The thing is, if you're annoyed that your girlfriend won't put out and that you have to jerk off instead of sex... why would you first decide to cheat, then not even have sex?
Or why he would even date someone that seems to be a virgin when he can't go a month without sex and has to get nudes
Lucian Cat
Kissed a mod for a tag; liked it
So I'm walking to a date with essentially two girls.
About a month ago, this girl from Seattle hit me up on okc. She said she had just visited nyc, and hoped to be back etc. Of course im like ill show you around when you come back, and fun and partying and shit. She mentioned her friend coming with her back to nyc and implied shit and what not we can do as a group if I played my cards right. So today is the day. I know I'm gonna fuck this up. Her and her friend are bad af too.
About a month ago, this girl from Seattle hit me up on okc. She said she had just visited nyc, and hoped to be back etc. Of course im like ill show you around when you come back, and fun and partying and shit. She mentioned her friend coming with her back to nyc and implied shit and what not we can do as a group if I played my cards right. So today is the day. I know I'm gonna fuck this up. Her and her friend are bad af too.
LucidMomentum
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Messofanego
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Ichabod
Banned
So I'm pretty new to bumble and got a match today. My right and left swipes are a blur at this point, so before I started up a conversation I wanted to look at the girl's profile to see if I remembered why I swiped her. Upon starting the app, bumble took me straight to an empty text box so I could write a message, but I pressed the little left arrow next to the girl's name, which I thought would take me to her profile. It didn't, and now there's no sign of our match anywhere. Did I accidently kick the match?
ZackieChan
Member
You're posting on GAF during a date with two chicks. C'mon son
I had too pee. Now im closing my tap. Going back with the one I was talking about, the other staying at the bar to find her own d but shes open incase 😉
artsi
Member
I've been hoarding conversations last week assuming some girls would be more passive and it's kind of backfiring on me when they all suddenly activated last night. I have like 4 dates lined up which is ok, but I just can't hold all these conversations lol.
Next up is a date with the (older) single mom tomorrow. She said that she likes younger guys so win-win ¯\_(ツ_/¯
Next up is a date with the (older) single mom tomorrow. She said that she likes younger guys so win-win ¯\_(ツ
_/¯Messofanego
Banned
I've had that issue, talking to 4 girls or more at once.I've been hoarding conversations last week assuming some girls would be more passive and it's kind of backfiring on me when they all suddenly activated last night. I have like 4 dates lined up which is ok, but I just can't hold all these conversations lol.
Next up is a date with the (older) single mom tomorrow. She said that she likes younger guys so win-win ¯\_(ツ
artsi
Member
I've had that issue, talking to 4 girls or more at once.
Yeah it's like work lol
But like I said, I'll see these and then take a break if none of them pans out.
I doubt it though, at least one of these should be a good one looking at my past success rate.
So I matched with this cute girl on Tinder tonight. We talked for like 30 minutes and she was talking more than I was. She seems cool af buttt
I facebooked her and there's a picture of her hugging a guy from last November.
We're meeting up at a rave tomorrow; it's okay for me to be flirty right? I thought the fact she's on Tinder and she's talking to me so much meant she was into me. But that facebook picture tho.
I facebooked her and there's a picture of her hugging a guy from last November.
We're meeting up at a rave tomorrow; it's okay for me to be flirty right? I thought the fact she's on Tinder and she's talking to me so much meant she was into me. But that facebook picture tho.
Zaraki_Kenpachi
Member
No you're not, you're being a scumbag and defiantly so. This could have ended before it began instead you're too pathetic to tell the girl sending you pics that you need to end it. Dump the girl your dating for her sake, you're treating her like crap.
Pretty much
She hugged a dude in November ? Are you in middle school?
@lulu congrats on the sex
and fatherhood
TangerineCloud
Banned
I'm not seeing the significance of the photo...
He's overthinking. Pic of her hugging a boy in Nov = girl has a boyfriend now. Completely ignores that it might be her brother or they might have broken up or he's just a platonic friend.
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My weekend dating plans went to non-existing. Got some outbreak in the face so I look like I'm turning into a zombie, went to the doctor and got antibiotics. FeelsBadMan
TangerineCloud
Banned
Ah, that's what I thought he might have been getting at.
Chill, fam. November was four months ago lol. A lot can happen in that time. Also, like Salamando said, it could be a sibling/friend.
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