I've been talking to this girl for a few weeks now, and things seem to be going really well. She lives a couple of hours out of town so we've only gone on three actual dates (including one where we stayed in my town overnight together), but we're talking daily and getting on great.
A few weeks ago she invited me to stay over at hers this weekend. Flash forward to now, and I suddenly may or may not have conjunctivitis, so to negate the risk of her potentially getting it (she's a teacher in the middle of the busiest part of term) I've had to cancel. She's heading home for school holidays after this too, so it'll be another three weeks before I get another chance to see her.
Nearly a month of waiting and now I've had to cancel over the risk of passing on an ailment that I may not even have. It's the right thing to do, but man. Feels. Fucking. Bad.
So, uh, virginity.
How do you tell someone? Should you tell them?
Everything is going well with this girl so it's going to happen sooner or later.
It's just sort of embarrassing, especially with her being younger than me (I'm 23, she's 21).
Once we get to the bedroom should I just give a casual "hey, I don't know if you care, but you should probably know I'm pretty new to this".
I've done a little bit of fooling around with girls, but I'm a late bloomer (and was very awkward throughout school and that).
Your idea sounds good, and it's basically what I did. My approach to my lack of experience has always been to treat it like it isn't a big deal; if they ask, I'm upfront. If they don't, give them a brief disclaimer later and do your best.
Didn't lose mine til I was 25 by the way.
