Gotdatmoney
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No. Don't be a coward. Sleep with their girls.
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No. Don't be a coward. Sleep with their girls.
Ristifer
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Ahhh, true that.
Gotdatmoney
Member
People that want validation for cheatong on their SO always make me laugh. Like bruh, you're an adult, you don't need the world to validate you, you can do whatever the hell you want. The wanting validation just positions you as being weak more than anything. Like you need to convince yourself you aren't being shitty.
Prime crotch
Banned
"Listen, I'm not using you to prove a point, you would be using me!"
Raptomex
Member
I could never cheat on somebody and for two reasons.
1) I'm not an asshole and could never do that to somebody.
2) Multiple women? Yeah, no thanks. The money I would probably end up spending, sneaking around, lying all the time, keeping up with those lies, and keeping them both/all satisfied? Fuck that. Who has the time? When the hell would I have free time for myself?
1) I'm not an asshole and could never do that to somebody.
2) Multiple women? Yeah, no thanks. The money I would probably end up spending, sneaking around, lying all the time, keeping up with those lies, and keeping them both/all satisfied? Fuck that. Who has the time? When the hell would I have free time for myself?
Gotdatmoney
Member
So you're gonna do it fam? 😀
If I wanted to sleep with multiple people I would just be single. If I could cleanly get away with it I still wouldn't. Just too mean spirited.
Mr Solo Dolo
Member
My favourite excuse cheaters use is "I met someone else. It just happened", when 9 times out of 10 it's with the person you were told not to worry about.
It's really disheartening how much cheating has been normalised these days. Being loyal is seen as being something unique when it should be the norm.
It's really disheartening how much cheating has been normalised these days. Being loyal is seen as being something unique when it should be the norm.
Gotdatmoney
Member
Honestly if my girl cheats on me I dont really need a reason. I'm out, she can tell the story to someone who gives a fuck.
Also, cheating hasn't been normalized these days. The internet just exists so we can read about it more. Skeezy guys and girls have been cheating on their partners from the jump.
EchoChamber
Member
Cheating is very common in Mexico, I fucking hate when some friends boast about it.
lol it just happened is the dumbest thing anyone could say
There are so, so, so many decisions one must consciously make to cheat on someone. Even if "I was black out drunk!" was the excuse, the choices made to consciously get black out drunk that the body unconsciously decided it MUST bone some person is stupid, and telling of someone's true nature. I've always said people act how they WANT to really act, without inhibition, while drunk. Some people want to be cheaters. Others want to be emotional and soppy. Some of them just want to be fucking bitches (that's me). Being drunk doesn't excuse you from your actions
Prime crotch
Banned
lol it just happened is the dumbest thing anyone could say
There are so, so, so many decisions one must consciously make to cheat on someone. Even if "I was black out drunk!" was the excuse, the choices made to consciously get black out drunk that the body unconsciously decided it MUST bone some person is stupid, and telling of someone's true nature. I've always said people act how they WANT to really act, without inhibition, while drunk. Some people want to be cheaters. Others want to be emotional and soppy. Some of them just want to be fucking bitches (that's me). Being drunk doesn't excuse you from your actions
I don't think it excuses you but it merits a degree of understanding. Course if someone is always getting drunk and cheating, like, come on, now you're just taking me for a fool
Gotdatmoney
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No it doesn't.
Actually scratch that. I understand that they suck.
I also understand their dumbass bout to be single.
Raptomex
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It merits nothing. The person should think before they act.
LookAtMeGo
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I been cheated on. Shit sucks. I came pretty close to doing it once myself but backed out at the last minute and still felt like a total piece of shit for months.
TheLostBigBoss
Banned
lol it just happened is the dumbest thing anyone could say
There are so, so, so many decisions one must consciously make to cheat on someone. Even if "I was black out drunk!" was the excuse, the choices made to consciously get black out drunk that the body unconsciously decided it MUST bone some person is stupid, and telling of someone's true nature. I've always said people act how they WANT to really act, without inhibition, while drunk. Some people want to be cheaters. Others want to be emotional and soppy. Some of them just want to be fucking bitches (that's me). Being drunk doesn't excuse you from your actions
Yea, basically how view people when drunk. I'm the emotional one
Ristifer
Member
Oh, guaranteed.
TheLostBigBoss
Banned
Sounds like some Modest Mouse shit
Prime crotch
Banned
People can fuck up, but do better afterwards. I never cheated, and honestly would feel devastated if it happened to me, but I've forgiven similar things before. To then get disappointed again, sure but hey! some people can do better
Puck Beaverton
Banned
They are.
Got a date tomorrow at a ramen place in northern DC.
Yup, i'm giving up playing Splatoon 2 on day one to go on a date instead.
This one should be interesting, as we held a sustained convo on OKC but mostly talked about what she did (she's a PhD student in public policy), so i don't know much about her likes/dislikes, etc.
Yup, i'm giving up playing Splatoon 2 on day one to go on a date instead.
This one should be interesting, as we held a sustained convo on OKC but mostly talked about what she did (she's a PhD student in public policy), so i don't know much about her likes/dislikes, etc.
Raptomex
Member
Good luck.
Pattycakes
Banned
Sounds like you've got a lot of things to talk about for a first date! Good luck!
I was 99% there I think. She's easily the best girl I've dated and it was the strongest connection I've had to someone. And she always said and did right. Truly a great person. And she's beautiful too. There will be no shortage of guys lining up to take my place.
But I feel like there's a limit to how far I can go with her. There's no way I'd ever marry her. And at my age, I'm definitely looking for someone for the long haul. I'd rather not sink in more time in hopes that it will evolve to that. Because deep down, I already know the answer. There's no one thing I could point to and say "that is the reason." It's more, "this is not how this is supposed to feel."
Gotdatmoney
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Get the ramen to go and show her how far gaming has come.
Mr Solo Dolo
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Cheating on your partner isn't fucking up though. It's not like forgetting an anniversary or something.
No matter how drunk you are, you're still in control and are willingly making the decision to cheat knowing how much it will hurt their partner and what it will do to the relationship.
Isaac Brock is way more clever than that
Gotdatmoney
Member
Can confirm the singular time I was blackout drunk in my life I was not in control. Still doesn't mean I was not fully responsible for any of my actions.
which was pass out on a lawn, get carried into the apartment and throw up for 3 hours. Birthdays, gotta love em
Mr Solo Dolo
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Honestly if you were that drunk you didn't know what you were doing surely that means you didn't give consent? So technically you were raped?
Gotdatmoney
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Oh I didnt have sex lol. Nothing bad happened, my friends took care of me. I was just highlighting that I totally believe you can be so drunk you have no idea what you're doing. But being drunk doesn't absolve you of responsibility for your actions. Don't drink yourself stupid is the solution. If I had hurt someone would "oh I was blackout" be a legit excuse? Hell naw.
It was my birthday. No ragrets. Would do again.
LookAtMeGo
Member
Nvm
timetokill
Banned
So there's a cute girl at the gym I go to. We have a lot of the same sessions ( the gym I go to has reserved 60 minute sessions).
How bad is it to ask a girl out at the gym? I know it's kind of a faux pas but I don't see her anywhere else :/
How bad is it to ask a girl out at the gym? I know it's kind of a faux pas but I don't see her anywhere else :/
don't
Spoiled Milk
Banned
don't
Gym is the sacred holy ground, Highlander style.
Fast Forward
Member
So, like, please help me.
32 year old virgin. Where, and how do I meet women IRL?
Only sports bars here, FTR, so that's not really a option in my local town.
32 year old virgin. Where, and how do I meet women IRL?
Only sports bars here, FTR, so that's not really a option in my local town.
Jzero
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Everyone wears headphones for a reason. They're all usually taken anyway.
Local music events are always good.
EchoChamber
Member
The last time I talked to a girl in the gym... Was the last time I saw her.
LookAtMeGo
Member
You can make eye contact at the gym. Give a smile here and there. Slowly work you way up to a hello. After a while maybe a conversation. Only if she initiates it tho. Have those from time to time. Then maybe.. just maybe it would be ok to ask if they wanted to meet up sometime.
timetokill
Banned
All right, all right
Have to hope I stumble upon her somewhere else I guess.
I figure headphones are for boredom.
Anyway, nobody wears headphones at this one because everything is grouped, with instructors changing your routine pretty frequently, watching your form, etc.
But I get the message, I won't do it.
*where* - I'll assume you've exhausted all online efforts...Tinder, Okcupid, Meetup, etc. You need to learn your town. There are no magic hacks here, only legwork and networking. Check out the local paper or bulletin board for events, join whatever clubs you can find, and chat up girls at your friends' parties. If you get an opportunity to meet new people, take it.
Have you tried the sports bars? If you literally cannot find anything, consider getting the hell out.
*how* - If you see a girl you think is cute, strike up a conversation with her, and ask her out. Consult the books listed in the OP for more details.
Messofanego
Banned
Please bring up how you avoided Splatoon 2 for her so she better be worth it.
artsi
Member
I stayed at the girl's place yesterday again, she's coming over tomorrow to my place.
Apparently she's told her family about me already, so I guess we're kind of official soon.
Kind of boring news but it's good news ¯\_(ツ_/¯
Good to hear you have normal people priorities
You can play games anytime man.
Apparently she's told her family about me already, so I guess we're kind of official soon.
Kind of boring news but it's good news ¯\_(ツ
_/¯Good to hear you have normal people priorities
You can play games anytime man.
Just act normal. Treat it like a date from any other method of introduction. Talk about whatever comes up. Don't be boring.
Messofanego
Banned
I stayed at the girl's place yesterday again, she's coming over tomorrow to my place.
Apparently she's told her family about me already, so I guess we're kind of official soon.
Kind of boring news but it's good news ¯\_(ツ
That's exciting news!
Subpar Scrub
Banned
*Loud sweating*
B-but bro, Splatoon!
(Good luck, have fun!)
Good to hear you have normal people priorities
You can play games anytime man.
EXCUSE ME
(Nah I'd do the same, got the whole weekend to play it, after all)
It's great that you're being honest with yourself. You'll find someone for you
It's bad
Yes, that's a general rule of thumb to go by.
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