Soooo, the other night I had a drink in mine with some friends, everyone left by the end except for one of my friends I've really liked for a long time, and after a while she kinda dived on me. Problem is I was absolutely wrecked, so before we could do anything serious past foreplay I kinda passed out. We've spoken since but not really talked about it except her saying how wasted I was. I asked her if she wanted to come around again next week and she said "yeah, i'll check which day I have off work" but I'm kinda fearing I missed my opportunity the other night. Any advice for how I should go about things or am I just being needlessly paranoid?
When it comes to someone you've known and have been talking to for a while, "opportunities" really don't factor into whether you have a shot with her. Ask her out. By now, she'll have already formed an opinion about whether or not she's interested in you. So don't skirt around the issue.
Boldly just say, "Would you like to go out sometime?" You could preface that by first apologizing and saying you would prefer that you weren't so drunk last time if you feel it's appropriate.
But I wouldn't dance around stuff at all. Be very direct and confident about it. Because at this point there's really nothing you can do to "convince" her to get with you or "play it right." You could really only disqualify yourself from this point forward. I'm pretty certain in saying her mind will be made up before you even ask her. You have to go for it.
I guess I'm back in the game. This really sucks. I hate this grind. I really just want someone to watch GoT with me on Sunday night.
It's only a grind if you interpret it that way. You have no trouble getting women so stop having a shitty attitude about it.
If you feel like it's a grind, clear your head and focus on other stuff. Don't just date hot girls because you can. If you step away from it, the urges to get with tons of women will come back naturally. It's our biology. So really, let nature take its course and stop "grinding".
