I disagree. People should best play exactly how they feel in the moment. No overthinking, and no reloading of imperfect details.
Anyway, I'm 88 hours in, long after the wedding, and to my surprise, contrary to the report from some, I've been often completely demolished by bandits and other enemies.
Yes my character is getting much stronger, but the margins also seem smaller, and thus stakes seems higher. The game also seem to ramp up the skills of some of the enemies, because some fights now take me a LOT more time to complete, if I'm at all able. Idk..
(But I'm playing without the dog because I find the increased challenge more interesting.)